"Girrrrrl, I am sick & tired of this man. He doesn't take me anywhere, he doesn't help with the kids, when I call him he doesn't even answer his phone. Whenever I try to talk to him, he yells, tells me that I'm talking stupid and disrespects me. I don't want to leave him, because I know who he is capable of being..I'm waiting on that guy to show up and stay.. He has potential, you know? "
LOL...Oh, but do I..
My dear friend is cheating on her Man with "Mr. Potential". Let me explain:
Mr. Potential is the man that she hopes her Man will be. He's the one who loves her unconditionally, nurtures her, encourages her, adores her, understands her and sexes her reaaallly good. He is the illusion of all things good. Although perception is reality..He does not exist. Sorry hun, you're stuck with the real one!
The bottom line is this: Every person has the "Potential" to become greater than what they are. However; not everyone has the desire to edify themselves. Consider the source, don't be a victim of compassion. Learn the difference between one who's discovering their potential -vs- the one who actually knows their potential and refuses to use it!
At the End of the day..
Girlfriend, you need to Stop falling in Love with a Man's "Potential".
He either is...OR He isn't.
~luvspellz~
ASK ME A QUESTION shahsha@aol.com
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