My friend once said to me : I don't want to leave him," I just want him to meet me 50/50 in the relationship."

I smiled and said to her, "well that's your first mistake. "

The bottom line is this people.. If you are in a relationship and you only require 50% effort from your mate, you're bound to be short changed!  BE PREPARED TO GET EXACTLY WHAT YOU HAVE ASKED FOR...Let me break it down;  Essentially,  you are asking for this:

50%- Loyalty

50%- Trust

50%- Commitment

50%- Honesty

50%- Accountability

My question to you is,  if you are both only giving 50%, where the hell is the other 50% going?? This is how outside influences are given the opportunity to penetrate your relationship. Whether it be a jump-off, social media, friends or drugs, someone or something is consuming the remaining 50%. 

The moral of the story is this, never accept anything  less than 100/100  in ANY relationship. Raise the bar, know your worth, know your partners worth. LEAD BY EXAMPLE, LET IT BEGIN WITH YOU. 

As the cliche` goes..." Anything worth having..is worth working for..." Go hard or Go home!

~LuvSpellz~

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